Now, again, wisdom and discretion are key. Some little people can disguise these 4 D's to look pretty sweet and innocent when in fact, they are not. And likewise, a behavior can seem dishonest when maybe you just misunderstood the situation. I have never prayed James 1:5 more earnestly than when parenting Micah:
If any of you lacks wisdom, let him ask of God who gives to all men liberally and without reproach.
Amen! Jesus please help me to be a good and discerning mother who addresses the right things and overlooks the unnecessary things. And besides, who wants to discipline this face more than absolutely necessary ;) ?